Tuesday, 11 March 2014

10 Ways to make your loved one feel special!


10 Ways to make your loved one feel special! 

Being in love is such a wonderful feeling. Your partner becomes a source of happiness in your world. Your life becomes special because of him/her and all you want to do is make him/her feel special. The only thing that stops you from doing so, is not knowing how to do it. Here comes to your rescue, ten foolproof tips to make him/her feel special.

Tell Them How Special They Are.
Many of us think that it is not required in a relationship to appreciate each other in direct words because we already know that in our hearts. On the contrary, not showing appreciation is as good as taking each other for granted. If you want your partner to feel really special, just tell him/her how much you appreciate the little things that they do for you. You can use gifts or cards as a means to do so, or can convey through just simple words.

Do Something They Want You To Do.
The best way of telling someone that they are special for you is by showing that you value their opinion. Your partner wants you to change something about you or to get rid of some habit of yours, then just do it for him/her. It can be as small a thing as not watching television during meals, or as big as changing your dressing sense. Remember that your relationship is more important than any other thing that you have to let go. If you pay heed to your partner’s opinion, he/she will feel a lot special.

Make A Wish Day.
Celebrate ‘make a wish day’ once every month. Your partner will be allowed to wish for anything he/she wants that day and you will have to fulfill it. Your attempt to fulfill your partner’s wishes will convey how special he/she is for you.

Praise In Front Of Others.
You have been appreciating him/her in private but it is equally important to show appreciation in public. This doesn’t mean that you need to do more PDA, but it means that you show appreciation for him/her in presence of your families and friends. If you praise them in front of their family and friends, it will make them feel even more special.

Gift Them A Holiday With Their Friends/Family.
When you are in a relationship, you get so busy with each other that you almost forget about other people that are part of your life, or if we put it more aptly, you pay very less importance to the people that are part of your partner’s life. If you want your partner to know how much you care about him/her, you need to show that you care for their other relations as well. And what better way it can be than gifting them a holiday together. Your partner will feel so blessed to have a partner like you and will feel really special.

Be Romantic.
Being romantic is a very effective way of making your partner feel special. Bring gifts, buy flowers, write cards, send love messages, go for romantic dinners and see for yourself how special your partner will feel with all these.

Show Gratitude.
Many aspects of our life are taken care of by our partner. Most of the times we take it for granted and don’t give them any credit for it or don’t show any gratitude. Just a simple ‘Thank You’ or ‘What would I do without you’ will make your partner feel how important they are for you and will make them feel special.

Show Interest In Their Interests.
Don’t be over occupied with yourself. Pay attention to what your partner wants. Help them out in pursuing their goals or following their hobbies. Nothing will make your partner feel more special than the fact that what is important for them is important for you as well.

Make Decisions Together.
Remember that both of you are spending your lives together and each of you has an equal say in each other’s life. Never be the dictator in the relationship. Make your life choices together. Giving importance to your partner’s views is just another way of conveying how special he/she is for you.

Spend Quality Time Together.
However busy schedule you have, you need to take time out for your partner. Plan a holiday together, go for the movies or just spend an hour cuddling and talking. The more quality time you spend together, the more you convey to them how special they are for you.

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